I responded to everyone who sent it to me with a lol. Some people ignored my lol. Others asked me why i lol'ed. Some people were even insulted and asked me if i didn't love God, or if I didn't even believe in the concept of a God in the first place. And I just had to laugh at how ridiculous the world has become. This is a conversation between me and one of the people that forwarded the message:
Person: *forwards some mess about forwarding the message if i love God*
Me: lol
Person: what?
Me: the thing about God
Person: everyone is sending it
Me: so u just sent it cuz everyone else is doing it?
Person: i have nothing to lose although i don't believe in it. and so i don't feel guilty
And I told the person that I'm choosing to stop this conversation there, because of the fact that I was going to be brutally honest, and this specific person can't handle brutal honesty.
Now there is so much that is substantially wrong with this entire conversation, but let's start with this: If you need a message to remind you of God and the fact that you love him, then something is wrong with your "belief". And if you give me an excuse like "everyone is doing it", then that makes it even worse, because it shows that the primary goal you had in mind was to belong to the fad, not to show your love for God. And then, the finale: "i have nothing to lose although i don't believe in it. and so i don't feel guilty." Are you retarded? So you needed a message to remind you of God, then you forwarded the message because it's the hot thing to do these days, and now you're telling me that you don't even believe in it?
I'm not exactly the most religious person, but at the same time I'm an extremely logical and unbiased thinker. I don't NOT believe in religion or think it's bad, and I certainly don't consider people who are religious and hold on to the meaning of faith as ignorant or mislead. To each his own, it's a free world, and everyone should live his life in the manner that he/she finds convincing. But what I do not tolerate is hypocrisy. And therefore, I cannot stand people who claim to be religious (when they are actually not), and then only remember religion when they receive a message like that.
They're not sending it out of wanting to pass the message along. They are sending it because of the guilt trip that they would go through if they don't. That alone tells me that they don't really care, because someone who is truly religious wouldn't have a reason to feel guilty.
What I also hate is how religion is being taught in some countries. This happens actually mostly with Islam. I feel the way Christianity is taught is generally so much more sensible, and the method that they use tries its best to make sure that you love religion and God, and for the right reasons too. When I think back to the teachers that taught me Islam, I remember three things that I believe were huge douchebag mistakes on their part (and I'm sure MANY people will relate):
1. I was always taught to fear God, I wasn't taught to love him.
2. The consequences for not doing my homework or learning my lesson in Islam class were punishments that, as a 10 year old, seemed scary to me. Therefore, these teachers killed my eagerness to learn my religion, and instead made it this thing that I HAD to do just to avoid the punishment.
3. At the end of the day, holy books are the "words of God". And certain things are left open for interpretation and to the person's own judgement. Therefore, it is completely wrong for me to learn the meaning of the verses of the Qur'an through someone else, because all I am getting is that person's perspective, which is a function of his teacher's perspective, which is a function of his teacher's perspective, and so on and so forth, until we arrive to the first teacher of the Qur'an, Prophet Muhammad. Assuming the average length of a generation is 30 years, that means that the meaning of the Qur'an that I am given by my teachers who got it from their own teachers (etc...) has passed through more than 45 generations. Quite frankly, that's alot of filtering, and I really question how much of the meaning was lost in interpretation. And this concept applies to all religions with scripture and books.
All this makes me wonder how the world would have turned out if people were given enough education for them to be able to at some point pick up their respective holy book and read it for themselves, and understand it from their own perspective rather than someone else's. After all, isn't that the point of religion? To find a connection with God that is your own and no one else's?
Food for thought people...